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Another happy girl

Amei, the Chinese orphan adopted by an American family

When I first met this girl about two years ago in a Kunming orphangage, I didn’t think her smile would become my best new year present of 2010.

A couple of days ago, I received five pictures from Flordia. I opened the email and read, “…now she is my legal daughter, would you please release the picture of her leaning at the gate…”

Immediately a girl with long hair and beautiful face came to my mind. My heart was beating so fast, my fingers were trembling when I desparately searched my photo album on my computer. As woman’s’ intuition already told me from the first look that the girl in the photo is her indeed. How amazing. Look that hairline, the lovely dimples, the eyes, the face shape…

In 2008, after of Sichuan earthquake I volunteered to teach English in one of the affected schools. Before my departure to Sichuan, on behalf of China-Europa Forum, I was assigned to a project to a Kunming orphange. One of my tasks is to visit the foster caring families in the countryside, a concept introduced to China by Robert (keep Chinese children in Chinese family). The journey was physically exhausting, but also very emotional as there were so much to take in.

When I was back in London, I wrote a little update on my blog. Soon I received an email from the States. Lieba, a mother of two children, was embarking on her adoption journey to Kunming. She asked me if by any chance that I had met ten years old girl there. Lieba herself is a director of a children education centre. In her email she told how she imagine her future dauther look like, and asked me if I could send her some pictures if I happened to take pictures of the girl she described.

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Why wealthy people engage in philanthropy

Through the recent research, it has been identified by Stuart E. Lucas that the following reasons of the philanthropic giving from the wealthy people:

  • make a pround impact
  • believe that privilege and good fortune demand responsibility to others
  • want to acquire social capital
  • feel some of guilt over their good circumstances
  • driven by the inspiration of others
  • want tax relief

“I believe that every right implies a responsibility; every opportunity, an obligation; every possession, a duty”. John D. Rockefeller

Broken Embraces

Broken Embraces

A while ago, I missed Saharah, which left boundless myth to me. (Saharah directed by Breck Eisner and based on the best-selling book of the same name by Clive Cussler.).

On 28th August, the first release of Broken Embrace, I couldn’t afford to let it slip over my finger again.

Watching Broken Embrace is a complete 129 minutes of restless journey. The plot, the love, jealousy, the most unique is that it is about “a film in the film”. Fourteen years struggles since a car accident, the writer lost his lover, Lena and his sight. Since then he not only denied his image as a film director, but also adapted a playful pen name to be a writer. However, this doesn’t stop his love towards Lena through his book writing in the dark.

One day the local newspaper reported a famous tycoon’s death. Subsequently a man named himself X-Ray knocked on the writer’s door with a recognized voice. 14 year’s peaceful life has been broken by this strange ma.

The writer’s devoted literature agent felt guilt in the dark too. Because she thought it was her who revealed the escaped couple’s hotel telephone number to the tycoon which caused the car incident. After a brief affair with the writer before, she had a son from him, who was hidden from him and their son for years. Holding your breath only come to the end of the film, it came out that the car incident was not a plot but genuine.

Repeated shot is broken photos that recorded the romantic stories between the writer and his lover. Re-live memorial love is such a painful process, none intends to do so. However, it is so necessary to filter negative images through. In the dark Conner, wish lovers who are not struggled any more. Open our free arms, embrace the broken heart, to forgive and to love.

Starring Penelope Cruz and directed by Pedro Almodovar.

My Word is my bond? Gordon Brown urges global “enduring values” at St. Paul’s Cathedral

11 am 31st of March at St Paul’s Cathedral, a historical building located right between Westminster and London’s financial district, “the City”, British prime minister Gordon Brown and Australian prime minister Kevin Rudd make key note addresses to over two thousand members of the public on the eve of G20 summit.

The public debate is entitled “My Word is My Bond”, which is the motto of the London Stock Exchange, implying the trust involved in financial exchanges. St. Paul’s Cathedral is a symbolic place to bring together political and spiritual leaders to respond to the current economic crisis. To kick start the event, Gordon Brown stated that St. Paul is the place to which over centuries people have come “in hope and in faith.” The whole world is observing how Gordon Brown is going to solve the current crisis.

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Shall we Dance Mr. Media

On new years eve, I did a recount on my 2008. Amazingly I found out actually it was quite cheerful although I felt it was a bit up and down.  I even forgot that at Min’s wedding, she just passed the wedding bouquet to me instead of throwing it. Heheh, I knew it was cheating but the picture with me holding the bunch of flowers with a big smile sealed my 2008 in mood of love. I mean big love to friends and families. We Chinese say: The country comes first before the home. I was curious to click around for media comments on China’s 2008. For me, I felt greatly it was a year that the whole nation has gone through all the ordeals and won the national pride of the last three decades. Almost every single non-Chinese I met put the thumbs up for the spectacular opening of the Olympics. Thanks for Zhangyimou and his team for providing the first Chinese history master class to the world. Thanks to Chinese people who made it happen.

I first clicked on one media site which started to paint a gloomy picture with heaviest snow then moved on to the natural disaster of sichuan earthquake:”China’s momentous 2008– the terrible earthquake in Sichuan, which claimed as many as 90,000 lives.” I was puzzled. Am I so naive or is the media nowadays so sophisticated?

Actually I saw a different picture in Sichuan. Duriing my visit in Oct 2008, the spirit of the Sichuan children educated and touched me. There was no single moment that I would want to mentioned that damned disaster. We couldn’t do anything about the past. The important thing is looking forward. From my master-class with students, I have learnt that they all have dreams to fulfil. They want to have a decent job one day so that they would repay their toiling parents on the farm land. Shall we send our regards via media express to take the momentum of 2008 and wish their dreams come true?

What about the enormous solidarity and the wave of voluntary support being given to the victims? In Sichuan, I talked to a taxi-driver who actually transportated food and relief supplies to the disaster areas for a couple of days. I wished him good luck in 2009.
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Sichuan - Day 3

In the morning, I went to the cultural garden near to Forstar hotel. It was so mild with beautiful autumn Sunshine, gleaming to my face. I had traditional Chinese breakfast there, spicy and steamed dim sum. It is slightly different with Guangdong, where have dim sum in the late afternoon. I can see the changes of myself comparing my first time in Chengdu, when I just graduated. At that time, I couldn’t sit down… everything made me exciting…… this time, I quietly sat in the breakfast restaurant, enjoying the coming and going of tourists, listening to the random music played by the restaurant owner… in particular, I like the ancient door….each house has a high stone threshold… which made each family/house more mysterious…. Granny had that kind of house in the countryside too, in spring,the swallows nested under the eaves . In summer holidays, I liked to sit on the stone threshold listening to my cousin bluffing stories about dogs, Buffalo’s and how brilliant of his Gongfu made him a leader amongst the villages boys.The sense of deja vu made me feel very homely. Of course, I also could remember how many times I had been bullied by him. Even though, due to the lonely childhood in the city, I still couldn’t wait getting back to see my cousins every holiday.

A friend’s driver picked me up sharply at noon then headed to the airport for collecting Eric and Ling from Beijing. Only when two of them arrived, I started to feel a bit “revolutionary” like a red army soldier, to the mountain villages to do volunteer teaching. I also thought of the TV episode where mentioned poor sichuan people went for revolutions. My floating mind was dragged back in the business mode. Then the long hours drive made everything back in calm mood. At the transition period of end summer and early autumn, daytime it was still quite hot. From witnessing the changes of the buildings and the new highway roads, I sensed the enormous changes. After four hours drive towards southern Chengdu, we started to see the collapsed houses and actually we had to drive along a river bank because the damaged road is in repair. It wasted us almost one hour for the single traffic flow system, without traffic light control. The dust and earth were flying….. I tried to cover my poor infected nose.

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Recount on 2008 of my time

The new year 2008 started with family gathering in Edinburgh. Both mum and Rebbecca were with me plus some friends. So we visited different parts of the cities and showed mum around all my previous workplaces.

New Year 2008 in Edinburgh

New Year 2008 in Edinburgh

Shortly after gathering, mum and Rebbecca went back home when it was exactly the day that china were suffering from snow disaster. Cousin’s car lost control of turning around 360 degrees on the icy road. Mum kept praying… thank god, everyone was safe and sound.

Not having touched a car for a couple of years, it was first time to drive again, that time, with the stake of all volunteers including artists and performing costumes in my hand… so nevoursl. however, did it ! Caught by the policeman at paddington, while Tomtom asked us to turn right which actually wasn’t allowed…. so blame on tomtom…

Went to Convent Garden with friends on April food day. Was amazed with the huge man made pumpkin….

Immediately after drove the car around, went on the road with Yihuan in Ireland… fought for the line on the tram track…. dear me…

In Newby we met Sam, an Irish motorcyclist…. who traveled two years and 6 months globally on his two wheels…

Disaster month is may for the earthquake… worked so hard to raise funds to help children. Went back to Edinburgh for an auction tea function.

Attended Min’s Wedding at the smallest city in England which is called Wells… brilliant experience. Thousands of kids were dancing local traditional dance for a festive competition, Lucky min….

ming's wedding

ming

In the mood of love

In the mood of love

In July went to Switzerland with Yihuan…..

July 2008
July 2008

July 2008

July 2008

July 2008

In August I wondered about….. in the Hyde Park…

In September, called in to St. Mary’s Hosptal

Sept 2008

Sept 2008

In Oct China trip

forbidden city in the dust

forbidden city in the dust Fobidden City

Sleepless ChengDU- Day 2

The first thing is to see a local doctor for some prescription. I had temperature in the flight from Kunming to Chengdu. Ten Min’s walk from the local, stood there a local hospital in front of me. Due to the refurbishment, I walked in from the side door, where were very quite. I doubted it for a second if it is a hospital. However, the chemical smell confirmed me it is. The staff seemed very lazy and half sleeping, which actually shocked me with the normal long queue I would encounter in any other hospital in Beijing or wuhan. I couldn’t figure out why. Maybe chengdu people in general are in good health. The staff were very cold to me, and very rude to any questions I have asked. I don’t know what they are expecting a stranger walking in, would know absolutely everything in their mind. I feel a bit sad to be honest, in particular when you are unwell. Being scolded without any reasons, being pointed out here and there without any clear explanations, made me even more dazzling. Anyhow, eventually I found myself in the third floor where I have been told that Dr is located. When I walked in, a young lady is concentrating in her text messaging. She even didn’t raise her head to look at me. With hesitation, I asked:” eh… excuse me, any doctor please!. ” It is me.” She replied. Guess she might be in love, well, quite good feeling I felt she was in good mood.

She asked me some personal and medical information. Then she diagnosis me with nose infection due to the air pollution. She prescripts me anti-biotic for three days, vitamin B and nose drops. In conversation, I pretended me of a return overseas chengdu person. Her communication way seems a bit welcomed home. I would expect these medicine lasting me for the rest of week. I wouldn’t want to see myself collapsed in front of students.

Then I rushed to the other side of the city ( close to French supermarket) to meet my danish friend. As arranged, I met Andrew from 1kg. The conversation brought us very close as if we have met and being friends for ages. Due to the limited time, I rushed to meet up someone from hubei, who works for Mr. Xie YingJun, from Taiwan. The lad told me very interesting model of building house for farmers by cutting off currency trade, back into the traditional concept of aggregate the commune resources.

Around 10pm, I was back in to my hotel room. Turning on the TV, it was a recount for the all the favourite songs for the 30th anniversary since 1978 (china’s open policy, reformation). Songs is the history carrying out moments of emotions, and growing up. I texted message to all the friends in Shenzhen. A chang was so emotional too to ring me immediately to have a chat. For the whole evening I found chengdu sleepless.

Sichuan Children, Good Luck for year 2009 onwards!

It is 12:32am(middle night), last week of 2008. I am surrounded by the sentimental songs by Teresa Deng. The discs were uploaded to my computer on boxing day by Dong Yi, my friend, a famous Chinese zither player.I can’t indulge myself in such artificial emotional lost. Beside the table night, I know how lucky we are and there is an outstanding homework yet to be complete for sichuan children.

How are you getting on now? Sichuan Children?

My memory was replayed to my visit Oct 2008.

Day 1 - I arrived from Kunming to Chengdu airport. Due to the airpollution, I had my nose infected and had roblem in breathing. Got tempture in the airplane. On arrival, I had no engegy to wait for taxi. On that moment, a local “black”(unlicensed) taxi driver dragged my luggage to his car, I kind of followed him without engery to think more.  After he loaded my stuff in the boots, he made a call saying: “hurry up, the guest wants to go to … road… forstar hotel. ” By saying that he also opened the door to let me into the car. eh…. no, stinky dog smell in the car, filthy old carpet. All of sudden, I felt so unsecure.

All my luxury property was my computer, which is beside me all the time in my handbag. Immediately he locked the car door and disappear without saying anything to me. Gosh, in one minute, robber, hollogan, all the bad words came into my mind. I started wondering how I am going to. I tried to copy his car registration number. I opened the door, the back boots is locked. I looked around and attmpted to call for police. However, I didn’t see any soul at that moment. I went in to the car again, trying to find something in his front seat. Ah, my eyes are getting glittering. Car Keys. Then after two second, by looking the worn out key set, my instinction told me that might be a set of false keys. Anyhow,since I didn’t find anything else, at least this key has his finger print. Why not to try to open it. I tried very hard without any progress to open the boots. At that moment, I saw a middle aged man was about to open his own car. Approaching him, I asked very poliot and carefully for a faour. Without hesitate, he had thought it was my car and came out to help me. He gave it a coulple of try…. at the end, the boot was open.. brilliant. I keep thanking him. I moved my luggage out immediately. After I placed the car key back to the steering, I escaped immediately from the crime scene. I’ve heard a man’s vocie: yii… where is the luggage?” I looked back, the man was shocked when he saw the missing luggage. I waved to him at a distance…… sorry….. I have to go….. Poor next passenger was placed by him, and new passenger’s luggage in the boot too…. maybe he had to wait for another hour for him to filling in the car with another three passengers, each of them will pay him a full ammount. He started to swear to me. But who cares, I was lucky to escape. Maybe he never thought that I am holding a full UK driving license, although I looked quite weak on that day.

Day 2- Seeing Doctor and meeting Andrew - from 1kg, friend and Mr. Xie’s team ( from hubei, honghu)

Day 3 - To Pingwu- meeting school officials

A business friend arranged his driver to pick us up.

Day 4- Master Classes to Students

Day 5 - Talking to Teachers - to Mianzhu - Hanwang

Day 6- Deyang -

Day 7 - Dujiangyan

Day 8 - Chengdu - …. back to Beijing

New Leaf - Big Love without sound

Started a new job this Monday with Royal College of Surgeons. Friends send in loads of congratulations as if it were them that found a new job. Somehow I could understand it,given the global financial crisis. I had a very mixed feeling as if moving away from an entangled relationship within a spiderweb. I couldn’t find a proper word to express myself. Maybe that doesn’t really matter that much any more. Life goes on and life is learning. Friends around are much emotional than me. To be honest, after my home visit this year, my mind is much calmer. At least I could shrug my shoulder which I might not be able to do that before the trip. My emergency call in St. Mary alarmed me.

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